If you are in a relationship that has to be a secret, don’t be in it: Part 2

How we managed to keep it all a secret still amazes me. I think alot of it is to do with both living far from where we worked. Plus he ran the department he worked in, so was able to manipulate situations to his advantage, arrange meetings in the London office or suggest suppliers needed to see my business – an excuse for a night away in a hotel, usually the Holiday Inn Ealing.
We never talked about the future, apart from him suggesting one evening that he could always move into my house if his wife found out! I made it very clear to him that if he ever left his wife it would not be to be with me – it would be because their marriage was over. There is a distinct difference and leaving one relationship for another will never provide the right foundations for that new relationship. Hence the title for this section, no one else could know, that should have screamed out to me that it shouldn’t be! Well we all live and learn.
So life did move on and we did end up together. It’s funny but none of it, as far as I recall was planned between us, it just happened. We muddled along, really well actually. We had a great relationship and carved out a carefree relationship with each other. We were happy.
Posted by bekidaviesduvet at Thursday, January 28, 2010 0
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